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about the night we met.

the pillar by our table came between us and I didn’t get a gestalt on his face.

Later, I realized it was true that he just wanted my girlfriend’s number.

But he was also into meeting my father. He had so much info about hi-tech and he was thrilled to think he could meet him.

So, my girlfriend said, as we left, “he’s cute!”

and somewhere between there and when he called—a few days later—after the weekend—per my request—I fashioned a heart to marry him! It was just so logical! A Canadian and an engineer, the perfect answer to my marriage concerns as the English American daughter of a hi-tech, IC engineer. Everything seemed to click but oh no! It just didn’t.

So, I did not fall into marriage at first sight but almost.